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Sex Issues for Couples Quiz - Orange County Sex Therapy

Sex Issues


A fulfilling sex life is a vital part of any relationship. Many couples find their sex life fulfilling near the beginning of the relationship, but struggle to maintain it over the long term. Often couples sexual relations act as the “yellow canary” for the rest of their relationship. I.e. problems in their sex life are often early indicators of deeper non-sexual issues.

The most common issues I help people with are:

  • Lack of sexual desire by either party
  • Erectile dysfunction
  • Female difficulty becoming lubricated
  • Difficulty achieving orgasm

I have a number of quizzes articles on human sexuality, feel free to read them here.

How is your sex life doing? Does trouble in your sex life indicate possible trouble in the rest of your relationship? Take this quiz to find out:

P.S. You may also want to visit my page dedicated to sex and porn addiction.

  Strongly agree Agree Neutral Disagree Strongly disagree
1. I am happy with the frequency with which we have sex.
2. I feel safe discussing my desires about when and how frequently we have sex.
3. I feel safe telling my partner what I find enjoyable during sex.
4. I always put my partner’s pleasure ahead of mine.
5. I am able to orgasm regularly.
6. My partner is able to orgasm regularly.
7. A generally feel satisfied with my sex life.
8. I feel comfortable with my own sexuality.
9. I frequently need to convince my partner to have sex with me.
10. My sex life often feels boring or routine.
11. I often feel worse after sex than when we started.
12. I often feel self-conscious about my body during sex.
13. I often agree to have sex out of sense of obligation.
14. My mind is often elsewhere when we have sex.
15. I am able to "let go" and enjoy sex most of the time.


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